Genuine Question: Why Are the Rules So Limiting Here?

I've tried multiple times to use this subreddit and I genuinely can't, because it constantly either flags my posts as something they aren't even close to being and usually that's something which can only be discussed once a week. It's honestly quite frustrating that if there's something I need to discuss or receive h-lp with, even if it's a broad topic, I have to mark it on my calendar or I'm SOL. And yes, I legitimately have to censor that word because it flags it as wr-ting assistance (why is this word allowed but the other isn't?), and yes, I had to censor that word too. You cannot say the name of the subreddit even without it telling you to wait until some arbitrary day of the week and use a specific post on that day.

Is there a reason for this? Why do those days correspond to those topics? 10/10 times I go here for a reason that I can't even discuss until yesterday and it's very frustrating. Other subs are great but barely have any users online. What's more is I've seen more specific posts than anything of mine that have been perfectly fine. I really can't wrap my head around what's going on here anymore. I'm surprised I managed to post this even, I was barely able to because of the words "h-lp" and "wr-ting", even though I'm not asking for assistance, which is somehow allowed!