Everytime I try to contact her, I make everything worse

It seems like universe is leading me to make mistakes. Every time I reach out to her, I just make things even worse than before. And the last time we contacted was 3 years ago. I felt like I was getting some signals from the universe to reach out, I was seeing her around, and I just reached out to her last Sunday and it made things a lot worse. I don't understand. She replied to my message that my message annoyed her and she doesn't want to communicate again.