which bathroom should i use?

help, what bathroom should i use?

At my job, I was told to stop using the mens because it was making male customers concerned.

I'm in a college dorm and i've been minding my business and mainly use the run down family bathroom (it doesn't even have a working sink) when i can. But now i'm told i have to use the mens at my college.

So which one should i use 😭