Dating? What’s your experience been like?

I’m a T6/t7 incomplete and I use arm crutches primarily for mobility and wheelchair for really long distances. I was in a relationship prior to my injury and a little bit into the beginning of it. It was the best relationship I had so far and we are still friends but the relationship didn’t end the best. I haven’t entered back into the dating scene because I’m scared that I won’t find someone that I connect with that deeply that I did with my ex. Also, I want people to see me first and not my mobility aids. I feel like I get overlooked because they see my mobility aids first. I’m a pretty attractive and I overcompensate with my fashion style so that distracts from the mobility aids, but still. Idk. I’m nervous.