Need advice on finding a gf

Hello, I (25F) have been trying to find a partner for awhile and tried Hinge and Her but just found it really difficult to get the convo going over time. Curious if there are any other avenues for meeting similar people in Singapore (i know there are gay bars but not so sure about les ones), or other apps?

I'm bi and the moment I say that, half the time they just ghost / not interested even though I have a preference for girls. I've thought about it and I'd rather not lie and claim to be les. I'm lowkey giving up since I dont have much free time due to work and it's abit demoralising because I've been ghosted a few times because they are scared of getting hurt by me even though I am only talking to one person..also i get hurt when i get ghosted too despite me spilling my life tea and it's really sian to repeat it to people...

Am also considering fwb (girls only) cos I like to go on dates, take care of people, and I'm kinda scared of getting ghosted by people now but i think the expectation is different so I wont be as hurt? Not sure if this is an ok way to go about thinking about this so really appreciate any advice!