Charlotte & Trey

I have a theory and I want to know if anyone else has thought of this. During the short period that Charlotte and Trey date, they don’t have sex. The show portrays it as Charlotte wanting to wait to make it special and more meaningful. Does anyone else believe Trey went along with this not only bc he of course respects Charlotte but also because he knows he’s impotent and won’t be able to give her the sex life he knows she wants? I’m wondering that he thought “well if sex isn’t that big of a deal while dating, it’s not that big of a deal in marriage.” Maybe i’m coming from left field from this theory but i think it’s possible and want to know what others think.