Our sex life is boring and onesided.

I'm a 25F and I've been in a relationship for nine months with a 24M and I'm wondering if my expectations are too high. When we're intimate, he prefers to stick to what he's comfortable with which makes sense; but he mostly just wants to have intercourse without much foreplay. There are rare moments of foreplay, but he doesn't like oral sex—either receiving or giving it.

When I try to kiss him on the neck or other areas, he gets ticklish and uncomfortable. Our intimate moments usually consist of a few minutes of making out followed by intercourse, which often leaves me unsatisfied. Each time he asks if I've finished, I say no, and he gets upset. I’ve tried explaining how I can reach that point, but he doesn’t want to do the things I enjoy.

I've always loved when a guy goes down on me, but he insists it’s not his thing, claiming that none of his previous partners liked it either but would never complain about his d***. We’ve had several conversations about this, but they usually end with him getting angry and suggesting that if I want certain things, I should be with a woman instead. He just doesnt understand and thinks I should only be satisfied with intercourse. It sucks because I love giving and recieving oral. On top of all of this we only are intimate once a week and its been extremely hard for me because I'm not used to that and then when we are its 10 min tops.

I initially hoped things would improve and that he would try to understand my needs, but that hasn’t happened. I used to ask him to go down on me, but he said I was forcing him, so I stopped asking altogether. I feel like our sex life is quite dull, and I'm unsure if I should stay in this relationship or consider leaving him. I how ridiculous it would be to leave someone over this but being intimate has always been to me and something I can't just ignore.

TDLR; "I'm a 25F In a nine-month relationship with a 24M. Our sex life is unsatisfying; he prefers limited intimacy, mainly intercourse, with little foreplay and no oral sex. I've expressed my needs, but he gets upset and insists it's not his thing. I feel sexually frustrated and bored, and I'm unsure if I should continue the relationship or consider ending it.