Romantic and Queerplatonic subjectivity

People often describe QPRs as "defying the heteronormative standards of relationships"

But aren't romantic relationships also defying what exactly relationships can look like? Especially modern ones?

After all, there's a millions ways to explore romance much like how there's a million ways to explore QPRs

Not every romantic relationship ends with marriage, kids, and a family after

Unless you're implying that both alloromantic individuals are engaging in a QPR without ever knowing the term, but that's something a bit different