Potential J2 pulled bait and switch

Have been looking to join the OE ranks for awhile and had two potential J2’s lined up. The one I was really excited for gave me a verbal offer and then reneged without explanation. The second opportunity claimed to be fully remote then began asking if I’d come into the office without any indication of what that hybrid schedule would look like AND the nosey recruiter somehow saw my LinkedIn even though it is fully private and questioned me about my current job that isn’t on my resume. I told her the job was a contract role, but feeling like I’m back to the drawing board because this isn’t a good fit.