I reported my mom to cps...
Last week I reported my mother to cps or our case worker (we foster) because she is emotionally abusive and I am the one who takes care of her foster kids. Well, they came today and my mom was already mad at me because of another investigation that was opened by our old foster kids parents. She told me that "all this is happening because you couldn't open your fucking mouth and tell them we don't steal. I didn't say she stole, I told them that I haven't seen them steal but that I've learned some disgusting things about her and won't be able to clarify whether that's true or not. Well, the other allegations when through after and she immediately knew that I was the one who made them. I sat there and watched her lie to the social workers (again) about how often I watch the kids. She lied about slapping my brother and the minute they left the room I got told off. Well these are the messages she sent me before I caught her In her room crying and she told me "I hope ur happy".
"I hope both of you fuckers are happy. not only have you ruined this but you have ruined my career. Have a nice life."
"im cutting you both off. fuck both of you."
"so for everything I've done for everyone in this house this is the slap in the face I get."
she goes onto complain about how hard she's worked to get the career she has and how shell never be able to work for cps again, and that she has to cancel her interview on Tuesday because of me.
The last text I got from her was:
"you think the grass is greener on the other side? ill send you to live with your grandparents. have a goof life."
Am I in the wrong for not wanting my already truamatized foster sister to not go through the same trauma that I have that caused me to develop bpd? am I in the wrong for reporting her for doing wrong and for her behavior. I feel like shit now but she brought this upon herself for not taking care of any of us and lying to social workers. oh oh oh and supposedly taking a kids to see a guy while letting him watch tv on the floor when they were on the couch in their underwear! like what?