I'm so lonely haha
Hey everyone,
A month ago it was my birthday. I invited 5 people, whom I thought were my closest - bought a pretty cake, made the reservations and decorations only to have 4 people dropout last minute and give me no reasoning.
I realized I don't have any friends lol. The 1 Friend that showed up is great, but she hates going out and is often "too busy" to meet me irl. I have never been invited to a party, drank alcohol or went dancing or simply experienced "getting ready with the girls" and having someone to go on adventures with. I've tried going by myself but it's not as fun and gets boring after a while.
There's nothing wrong with me - I think I'd make a great friend. I'd like to say I have a kind personality, a great sense of humor, very generous. I'm not pretty (never had any male attention or been flirted with) but I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. In most of the relation I've had, I'm the one that's always putting in more effort than the other and the one that cares more, so I am always wondering what is so wrong with me that nobody wants to be friends with me?
Anyways, If anyone could suggest ways to make new friends in Melbourne (young female btw) or would like to be my friend (can just be like texting on Reddit, I really don't mind )! that would be great.
Some of my interest include movies, painting, music and musicals, UFC, cool tech/inventing/engineering, global politics.
I honestly am super curious so I could get along with someone with completely opposite interest haha.
Many thanks,
EDIT:Hey Guys, thank you for all the comments and the messages i've recieved. With the amount of messages i've gotten, i'd have enough friends for many lifetimes! I'll try my best to reply to everyone, may take some time though haha. Again, i very much appreciate the effort - genuinely the sweetest thing thats happened to me xx