Is it overwhelming to be an infj?
As title suggests, do you guys find yourself getting overwhelmed by your own self? Like do you, from smallest, quietest gestures or from noticing small things like, say a mother dog, looking after her puppies or a small white flower growing through the cracks of cemented path.. Do you find yourself getting overwhelmed by such things? By overwhelm, I mean, imagine a balloon filled with water to its max capacity, it becomes heavy, with a looming threat of exploding anytime and spreading water everywhere... Is this a relatable feeling? I also find it hard to put word and word together to describe this feeling, at the time I find myself feeling it. It's like there is heaviness in throat, like words aren't enough to express everything I am feeling, or maybe it's me lacking in good vocabulary. Do you find yourself getting overwhelmed by being an infj? The hardest part, i have noticed, is not just this overwhelming, undescribable feeling, rather it's having no one to share it with. Maybe it's fear of getting rejected when showing a deeper side of yourself. Maybe it's fear of having what you feel being dismissed. Maybe it's fear of having no one who will understand this feeling which is so big and yet so delicate. It's okay to feel overwhelmed. It's okay to notice things, whether it's beauty, a quiet, soft, gentleness of life, or perhaps it's harshness, unforgiving nature of life, It's okay to be more than an outside, stoic observer to such moments of life, It's okay to experience it, It's okay to feel overwhelmed by it. For this is one of many things that perhaps makes us who we are.