Should I relocate to Gurgaon despite having a remote job?

I work in IT and have a permanent WFH setup. I work from my hometown and expenses are negligible compared to earnings as most the things are handled by parents. I am planning to get married and it’s an arranged marriage setup. The girl works in Gurgaon in banking sector in non tech role. I initially agreed to relocate but after doing research on the expenses specially high rent in Gurgaon, I am second guessing now and getting nervous thinking about the rent and expenses. I am not used to paying 35k rent, and potential higher lifestyle expenses that will come up. The girl earns around 70k, so it’s not that high to boost my morale for covering up the expenses. Girls also generally don’t want to spend equally in managing household. No offence to any girl here but just a general thing I have seen with few of my female friends. So don’t bash me here. I want to know how you guys would perceive this and handle this situation? How much will be the expenses for a couple living in a 2 BHK in Gurgaon? Her office is in sec 44, so will have to rent nearby. I prefer living a moderate lifestyle, not a fan of flashy ultra rich lifestyle that people in Gurgaon generally lead.