Match made in toxic (Gemini man 24,Pisces women 24 )

Soooo where do I start I’m gonna need AA after dealing with this man fr…my Gemini I love him down dearly but we just speak two different languages. I get that he’s detached and I understand that I give him his space when needed but his energy is so overwhelming that it’s starting to become my energy. I’m already a Pisces. That’s a lot and his two mines in indecisiveness is rubbing off on me and I’m becoming bipolar just like him lol. He’s so moody all over the place and inconsistent we were doing so good until he stopped talking to me for two days because he needed space and now I just don’t know how to move and we argue about the dumbest stuff. I just want him to be considerate and emotionally in tune for once. I try to be so sweet and loving to him, and he just acts so nonchalant, but every time I try to walk away, he won’t let me. Why keep chasing me if you can’t give me what I need all I’m asking for is emotional security, every now and then. Let me give an example last week he told me he loved me this week when I told him I love you babe have a good day at work. He just said thank you. I told him what is up with you. I just told you I love you and you said thank you. He said I don’t like saying that word. I love you like that??? It’s like one minute he’s a sweet man in the next minute he’s an asshole….