I feel like I’m not allowed to be upset when someone misgenders me.

Whenever someone misgenders me, I get upset because I try really hard to pass as a cis man. Im pre T, but the only thing that gives it away is my high voice so I don’t talk. I’ve given up on telling people about my feelings because the only response I get is, “they didn’t know,” or “they’re/Im just not used to it yet.” Im not blaming the person if they didn’t know, im just get upset that I still get misgendered even after I try so hard to pass as a cis guy. Even after correcting themselves, they just use they/them or she/her.

I don’t know if im being unreasonable or something, but im really patient with people and it just gets really tiring when I can’t do anything more to pass.