Is being unemployed and living with one's parents as a 29 year old autistic cis man an immediate red flag in dating?
Are there variables here that may determine whether a red flag is warranted? Such as:
- constantly applying for jobs
- doing gig jobs
- having some financial independence (i.e. paying for one's groceries and public transport)
- being able to drive
- being reasonably ambitious
- having a strong personality
- being healthy
Are cis men expected have 'provider qualities' in most western countries, irrespective of whether a woman is feminist, progressive/left-leaning, consensually non-monogamous, and whether a cost of living crisis exists that would make financial and residential independence difficult to accomplish?