I’m still not over the first date…

While I’m (28f) no longer sad about it, the confusion is what still remains. I just find it hard to believe that he (27m) faked the chemistry and connection we had on the first date. How do you ghost someone you had a 6 HOUR FaceTime with bc the connection was that strong? So strong that you did not stop smiling the ENTIRE FaceTime bc you were so excited to have met me?? Then you ask me to move the date of the first date up bc “you couldn’t wait to see me”??? And on the first date you were GIDDY AND HAPPY bc again you expressed who similar we were and never met someone who felt like your doppelgänger. I asked you what I was doing you make you so happy and you said “You just being you. That’s what makes it so amazing, you’re just naturally being you and I’m loving it”.

My friend said dating isn’t usually this shitty and I’m just having bad luck but it’s getting increasingly difficult to not feel so defeated. I mean, words cannot describe how euphoric that first date was. I know he felt it too based on how he behaved. I just don’t understand why he ghosted me when he was so excited to have met me? I think he might be a fearful avoidant so meeting someone who he actually liked scared him away. It’s not my problem but it’s confusing.

Edit: I wrote this a little confusing but the FaceTime call happened first then the first date. The first date was not the call. We went to dinner and had a cute walk around the city for our first date.