Am I missing something with Anarchism?

Is there some book I can read that will hip me to what is supposed to be so good about it? I always hear it propped up against socialism and vaguely made fun of for being dumb. When I try and read about it or watch people talk about it they just say shit I figured out when i was 12. Like I'm not kidding, there doesn't seem to be much of an argument for it. And much of what they say "rhymes" with the capitalist idea that all people are selfish and will only look after their own self interest.

I agree with Alan Moores idea that anarchism is the natural order of things and that indeed anarchism rules the world. Because once these people (Trump, Musk) start splintering off they take control of the govt and use the police, legal system, and law to ensure that they themselves will never have to deal with "the system."

Which is why... anarchism is natural but a strong system like communism needs to be imposed to foster equality. Anyway, if any anarchists can explain the basic precepts to me in a way beyond "kids rule parents drool" I'd be happy to hear it.