To the people jo maa-behen ki gaaliyan dete hain.

If you use gaaliyan involving maa and behen, you're part of the problem. I don't understand why these people do this. Like bro, it isn't cool. It isn't making you seem classy or mature. It won't get you a good partner in life. It won't land you a good position in society where people respect you and want to be around you. So why do you do it? Aaj kal ladkon ki baatein maa behen ko gaaliyan diye bageir puuri hoti hi nahin hai. Kyun bhai? Aise 'teri maa ki' 'teri behen ki' bade garv se bolte ho, but when someone insults your own sister or mother, tum bhadak jaate ho? Why this hypocrisy?

If you think this 'maa-behen gaali' culture won't affect our youth, just look at what happened to YouTuber Mithilesh Backpacker when he was touring with his Russian wife and child. Jo log '6000 rupees' ka behuda joke maarte the, they were like, 'joke hi to hai!' Look what happened. This 'joke' has normalized objectification of foreign fair skinned women (because who knows at first glance if a fair skinned woman is from Russia or no, our '6000 rupees joke' folk will make the joke again and again.).

'Joke hi toh hai.' 'Movie hi toh hai.' Shut up, please. Do some introspection, man. These people are the same who glorify Kabir Singh and Animal.

Please bhaiyon, maa behen ki gaaliyan mat do. This is one of the ways we can cleanse our souls and increase respect of women in our hearts and minds. Spend time with people who don't make such tasteless jokes. Read good books. Watch good movies. And then you'll find yourself cringing at your past behavior.

P.S - To the dude's who're crying about not having a girlfriend. Perhaps the problem is that you're also a 'maa-behen gaali club member?' I'm not saying you are, just saying that it could be the case. Stop cursing, and see the results. That's what played a part in making myself into the individual I am now, and that's what attracted my current girlfriend, so yeah. Be better.

This isn't moral policing. Just my opinion. Feel free to continue living your life as you do.

Edit: - It's literally so sad to see that there are people in the comments actually defending the usage of these words, calling me 'moral police' 'aadat ho gayi hai' 'famous people also say it'. Brothers, stay in your delulu. You know you're wrong, but you won't admit it.

You know mein bhi gaaliyan deta tha vo waali. Ek baar apni ek sister ke saamne nikal gayi. She said she was disappointed in me. I felt so ashamed, I begged her to forgive me. Us din ke baad I can proudly say that never have I ever once had those words come out from my mouth. Never.

You people who are defending the use of such words, I know why you do it. It's because you don't respect women. Yeah, I said it. I know I am loved and trusted by the multiple women in my life, and I know what their reaction will be if they heard me saying that stuff. So I keep those words out of my vocabulary. Tum logon ko nahin pata what's it like, being so loved and trusted. Auuraton ke pyaar ke liye taraste ho ek taraf and duusri taraf unhi ke uupar gaaliyan dete ho. The hypocrisy.

Agar itni badi baat nahin hai na ye, then apni maa ke saamne apne dost ko bolna, 'teri maa ki ****' and then see her reaction. Will she praise you? Will she tell you it's not a big deal?