Spidarrund situation. Told from a mod POV.
A long story short Spidarrund was allowing nsfw stuff to be sent on his server and did nothing about it infact he basically promoting it with unmuting and unbanning her Spidarrunds server has turned into a porn server with spidarrund allowing porn to be posted in a server with minors in it. It has disgusted us from the begining and we tried everything to stop it, reaching out to spidarrund and tried to mute the users who were sending the porn stuff. But every attempt we tried to make Spidarrund always unmuted them and allowed them to continue. In private dms Maxim was suicidal badly and talked about ending himself everyday since everything happened. I have offered to talk to spid to try and fix everything but he responds with "I don't want to remember you anymore" message. He has gasslighted me into almost making me block all the mods and everyone. He gaslighted me into not talking in other servers trying to make me his for him only. In Private dms spidarrund would ask for hair pics and hair video pictures everyday he would also ask for moaning vns as well I have ask spid when there is a problem for us to communicate but everytime there was an issue he would always say "late" and never talked more above that
