Ghost of Tsushima or Horizon Remaster

Recently moved to PC from Xbox so I want to check all the fuzz about Sony Games. Pls help me decide which would I try: ghost or Horizon Remaster.

1. I love samurai settings which makes Ghost an obvious choice. However I hate any sneak mechanics in my games. Heard it’s a big part of the game which puts me on the fence.
2. Horizon seems like a new Assassin type game (I liked Valhalla) but I don’t like “marvel” type stories, which to me a very childish and shallow. I have heard the story here is something very like marvel-like so this puts me off a bit also.
3. I have ADHD so I like to take games spend 10-20 hours in and move forward. Both games seem to be very bloated with content, which is not a problem if you can put them down for a month and come back without thinking about previous events.
4. I didn’t like God Of War 2018 as it was super casual: no penalty for death, game treated me like an idiot showing me with paint where I should go, what should I climb. Story was ok, but there was to much of cutscenes and many of game parts were super bloated: pushing stuff, repairing things, FedEx, walking sims with no particular point etc.
5. I loved Elden ring, which is my perfect game.

If you have other suggestions than ghost or horizon I am open. Thanks guys