Best State to Move for a Mixed Couple Planning for Kids?

Hi everyone,

My husband and I are planning to move to a different state in mid-2026. We are in Southern California and would love recommendations on where to settle. A bit about us:

• We’re in our late 20s/early 30s, married, and planning to have kids in 2-3 years.
• We’re a mixed couple (I’m Asian, my husband is white), so it’s important that we find a place where our future kids will feel welcomed and not out of place.

We’d love to hear from others who have made similar moves—where do you recommend based on good schools, safety, and overall quality of life? Ideally, we’re looking for a place with a lower cost of living than California (where we are now), and a family-friendly environment.

Thanks in advance for your insights!