DONT LOSE HOPE!!!! ( story of my bro 26M )

so this story is about my cousin brother, too shy and always saw every girl as her sister, very hardworking man and looks really handsome, in his school time he got multiple proposals but declined as he was dedicated towards his goal to give better life to his parents.

age - 26

background :-

too intro, very shy, very dhaarmik i mean he does daily pooja in proper way and every weak he visits baba baidyanath dham jyotirlinga, only child of my mausa mausi, has about 20-25 kattha land ( pls someone convert this into acres ), studious but due to financial issues and health issue of his parents, had to study in a nearby tier 3 engineering college.

got placed at wipro turbo, 6 lpa - age 22

after 2 yoe he changed and got into amazon at 20 lpa ctc ( ig 18 base ) not sure

with promotion within a year he got to 33 lpa ctc ( 24 base and rest in rsu/esops )

still doing wfh from hometown to take care of his parents

possession - 1 bike, 1 laptop, 1 mobile, too simple person

within 1 year of searching for matches on shaadi/js/bm, he got a really good match, i really mean, in search of diamond, he found kohinoor.

she is caring, smart, has sense of humour, dhaarmik, loves family, and most imp their vibes kundli matched.

jk their vibes matched.

her background :-

age - 25

btech and currently as sde in cisco, if i remember she told me that she earns close to 27-28.

her parents are also very liberal. not like usual AM parents that boy should earn 4x 5x, boy,

she has no problem if he wants to live with his parents.

they plan to get married in nov-dec this year and then would move to blr and settle there.

if you all remember shraddha from 12th fail movie, she is almost like her, soft spoken and respects everyone. she has become my inspiration that how someone can be humble after becoming rich and fin independent.

guys dont depressed, you will get a shraddha in your life tooo, ( but you also need to be like manoj )

major takeaways for guys in am setup -

be yourself, dont expect too much, if your ctc is <12lpa, dont worry, grind hard and try to cross the 15-18 lpa bar as soon as possible, coz this will help you get shortlisted. if the other side is getting too much into your land holding and siblings and all. just cancel everything. now your luck needs to be tooo good so you can meet a good family which isnt like 4x 5x salary demand, every year abroad, 100 acres land, 2 bungalow in south bombay.

here the girls parent knew how avg girls parents think because they had married their elder son in an AM setup last year.

all the best to everyone.

ps - no dowry demand, although now a days a new trend has started that ladki ke pitaaji forces groom to take 'gifts', they have decided that wedding cost will be split 80:20 :: bhabhi:bhaiya and 2 receptions each in bangalore and then at hometown would be taken care by my bro