“Right” time having children

Salam, I (23f) have a question for the married people. When did you realise that it was the “right” time (if there is even one) for having children. I have been married for more than a year and everyone around me comments and asks when I am going to have my first child. It’s not that I don’t plan on being a mother but I have realised that it is not something I am looking forward to in the next few months but maybe two years. At the same time I feel really bad for not being more happy about it because children are blessing from Allah. Was anyone in the same situation?