Harassed by ex
Hi team - just wanting some thoughts on a matter I am having to deal with at the moment and whether or not it amounts to harassment. I do not want anything to do with them anymore as it was an abusive relationship and after everything just seeing their car is enough to induce anxiety.
Over the past 12 months, my ex has been trying to insert themselves into my life. I'm away a lot of things that it is hard to prove intent, which is my problem!
Over the past 12 months they have done the following things..
- Tried enrolling their child into our childrens daycare
- Applied for a job at my workplace
- Applied for a job at my partners workplace
- Has driven past our house several times and either stopped out the front, honked or slows right down to stare. I know I can't stop someone from being in a public place but this seems very deliberate.
- They have also been seeing someone at my inlaws workplace and has been trying to start drama there too.
I know a lot of this would be hard to prove any ill intent and unfortunately they are very cunning when it comes to this so my partner and I are at a bit of a loss as to what we can do.. likely nothing but don't want to spend a lot of money we don't have at a lawyer if there is no point.
This has caused a lot of stress and anxiety within the home and unsure of any options. Any help would be appreciated greatly.