Relationship troubles

Hey, non-trad student. 32, been married for 3 years. Currently in 1L.

All break my wife and I have been having the biggest fights we’ve ever had, I’m planning on going to therapy to talk to someone, but the idea is .

“Hey you’re really argumentative now that you’re in school, and you’re requiring our communication be really precise and that’s annoying. I have been waiting all semester to tell you because I don’t want to be disruptive, but here we are months later and I think I’ve fallen out of love with you”

She attributes it to school and says if I don’t learn how to turn of second semester she’s done.

Anybody ever felt anything like this in school?