I hate the new update

I loved gritty 1-0 or 2-1 wins. Now every game my defense gives up at least 3-4 goals. My centerbacks are absolutely useless and they seem to just let attackers get behind them super easily. My defense through 20 games this season was 9th best in the premier league with 77 and 78 rated CB’s, now since the update my defense has allowed the most goals. I have not changed my play style at all and I don’t find this new update enjoyable. I liked the realistic score lines and having to be patient with passing before the update happened. Perhaps my issue is that I dont play fifa for the sole purpose of getting good, but to build a team and have realistic type outcomes. And please spare me the “git gud” type of comments