Having a tough time.

I just found out about this sub and I’m glad it exists. On the other subs, all i hear is “time to move on”, or i get blamed for not being able to read my wife’s mind

My story: i have had health issues for many years. For a long time it was under control, but things have gotten worse over the last 3-5 years. My wife was well aware of this when we met, i waited 6 years to propose just to make sure it would work, and we had several conversations about the future and what things would look like. My health has always caused stress and limited the things we could do but i never in a million years expected this.

I’ve given everything i had to this woman, i was married once before and knew what i wanted this time. I made sacrifices, i finances our lives while she built a successful business, i was always there for anything she needed. We never had any conversations about her being unhappy, and there were plenty of changes i could have made if she would have just communicated.

Needless to say i am heart broken. I never expected this from her, and for some reason, she now has blinding anger toward me for reasons I’ll never understand.

We still live in the same house and it is incredibly uncomfortable. She goes out of her way to make it that way. We literally went from best friends to enemies in an instant.

I am sad, angry for how she handled it, and scared for my future as my health continues to fail. I’ve lost my best friend, the love of my life, and my main source of support all at once.

I don’t know what I’m looking for, I’ve heard all the usual advice and none of it helps, i just wanted to tell my story.