Update: wife cheated again.
So I confronted her about it. She said that about a year ago she was so depressed and got feelings mixed up with one of her best guy friends. She says that they only kissed... I know the guy and it might have actually only been that, but I'm not going to 100% say I trust her on that. She has been battling with some depression issues the past few years and is on medication for it. She says she doesn't love me anymore. I asked if she sees any future with me and she said "No, not right now." Not sure how to interpret that. Seems like a simple yes or no question. She basically no, but maybe tomorrow or next year.
She says that she doesn't want to spend time with her and that I annoy her. I asked her about all the times she cuddles up with me and shows me tik toks for an hour. She said, "I guess I don't feel that way all the time."
At the beginning she said, "I think it might be time to call it quits" but when things got a little more serious she said she didn't want to rush into anything.
That's where we are at the moment.
Just wanted to thank everyone for the advise. Let me know if anything else stuck out to you and any words of encouragement and/or discouragement are welcome and appreciated.