Be a grown adult please!

So I am currently not on bumble as I'm taking a break, however I am so confused as to why grown ass adults feel the need to emotionally destroy someone on these apps. Ghosting and emotional game playing is so uncalled for. If you have no intentions of getting to know somebody that "you" matched with then don't initiate the conversation or continue the conversation. This goes for male or female. Also for the love of God if you are not wanting to date or pursue a possible relationship if there is connection then get your ass off dating apps! If you match with somebody then there was an initial interest correct? Don't match if you are not interested period.