What keeps you in the UK?

It's currently pissing down with high winds, wages are very low, becoming impossible to get into a NHS dentist and today I had the news of a family member complaining about headaches, sickness and being dizzy for months and the doctors kept referring him to opticians, physios (thought it was a trapped nerve) and we were begging them to do a CT / MRI scan and it was a 3 month wait...

So we had to go down the private route and we found out he has a big mass on his brain and he is now having an emergency operation in a few days time.

So it seems like we're heading towards a situation where people receive less in return for their National Insurance contributions, moving closer to a system where access to healthcare feels more dependent on personal funding rather than universal support.

I always thought we were lucky to have the NHS and I didn't care that a certain big western country average wage is 3x ours because they have to pay for healthcare - but now? What is the actual point?

So, please give me some positive reasons why this country is so good? Thanks.