My boyfriend followed this only fans girl on instagram after he knows it bothers me. It’s been brought up so many times, but it seems like I’m always the problem.

I was scrolling through instagram and noticed that my boyfriend liked a post of this girl who was being very “provocative”. It hurt my feelings so I dove in a little deeper and realized he is following her, I also noticed that she’s a person who does “Club” so I guess that kind of like an OF?

I have brought this up many times in the past, asking him why he follows this type of content and I let him know it’s disrespectful towards me and that I would prefer if he would refrain from doing that.

His answer to that was “I don’t even realize I do it, I just scroll through instagram and it pops up” and then I brought up the fact he followed the girl and he said “What are you spying on me now?” and “I thought we fixed this” (I had a hard time with my anxiety before getting on meds, I was a harsh over thinker and questioned everything)

He’s definitely lying, right? I have some other situations where he did this on TikTok as well, he liked and followed a bunch of content of half naked women. I confronted him about it and instead of stopping (I think) he changed his settings so I couldn’t see what he liked and saved.

I’m not sure what to do anymore. It has simmered down since but it’s still happening. No matter what I say, I’m the bad guy and I’m the one who’s overthinking and wrong in the equation.