Do you notice your wives or partners body changes?

I had a child almost two years ago, a C-section at that. And I have been so critical of my body. The cellulite is heavy, the scar on my stomach is a giant dent and the weight won’t seem to come off as fast as I’d hope.

I have no idea how my husband is attracted to me still. He claims he doesn’t notice and that I look the same but the changes are so obvious to me.

Did your partner gain relationship weight or have any significant body changes? Were they noticeable? Are you less attracted? Give it to me straight guys.

EDIT: wowzaaa I did not expect this to blow up but here we are. There’s no way I can respond to you all but here’s my giant thank you for sharing.

I am so lucky to have my man who has always treated me like a queen no matter the season. And some of you sound just as great.

A lot of you are right though, I am actively trying to get back to a place where I am comfortable with myself. Having a kid has been a huge identity shift; major surgery didn’t help the case.

Please don’t DM me to see photos of my body. I am very loyal to my man and I will catfish you, and you might’ve already gotten one. Sorry not sorry, don’t play me.