Is this how dating is nowadays?

I talked to this girl for about a month before we went on a date, I’m active duty military and just moved back home and transitioning out. She seemed very kind and genuine. I’m 23, she’s 25.

She insisted we drove separately, I met her at her car and walked to the restaurant, held the door for her, asked every question, paid for the meal, walked her back to her car and said drive safe - was very respectful and was engaging, and it was a very nice Italian restaurant.. not a cheap date or lack of effort.

She didn’t say thank you once. Didn’t ask one question - after about 30 minutes of asking her questions, I decided to wait to speak to put the ball in her court - still not 1 question. I had to break the silence with another question.

I told her to pick an appetizer, (she picked brochette) , she says “I don’t like tomato” and doesn’t touch it

I ask if she liked her food, she says “it was different” , didn’t return a single question.

I didn’t text her afterwards, and she hasn’t texted me.

Is this how dating is nowadays? I haven’t been on a date in about a year because I didn’t want to date in a temporary location. itll be very disheartening if this is how it is now..

** Thanks for all the advice guys! Didn’t think this would blow up the way it did lol, next time I’ll bring my date to a 5 star sushi restaurant! (I’m joking) lmao