Are My Standards for Men Really Weird and Ridiculous?
I was having a casual chat with my cousins recently when they asked about my standards in a partner. I shared what I thought was pretty reasonable:
He should be a feminist – Someone who genuinely supports gender equality.
He shouldn't be a right-wing supporter – This comes from my observations of right-wing echo chambers, which often harbor misogynistic views and horrible attitudes toward women. A lot of the below-the-belt comments I see online tend to come from people with such affiliations.
He should have mutual respect for my parents – Just as I would respect his family, I’d expect the same for mine.
Doesn't matter how much he earns – His values and mindset matter far more to me than his paycheck.
When I explained this, my cousin laughed and called my standards weird and ridiculous. It made me wonder—are they?
I feel like these criteria align with what I value in life and the kind of partnership I want. But am I missing something? Are these expectations unrealistic? Would love to hear what you all think!