They fucking micromanage and control every part of your life and then suddenly one day out of the blue they expect you to take responsibility for the choices THEY pressured you to make. Make it make sense.

God it's so fucking frustrating. This is why the advice I give to younger asians is do whatever you want because in the end your parents will take zero accountability for how they fucked your life up. Nothing about the circumstances they forced upon you. Nothing about the pressure, the doomsday talk, the comparisons, the emotional abuse. They'll take responsibility for nothing