Custom scam

So after biting the bullet and paying the expensive shipping (59€ to europe), i receive a message from UPS, that i need to pay also for 67.01 EUR of customs.
Since this was not communicated in the purchase process, I feel rather scammed.
there is no way shipping alone costs 59€, i know that because ive been working in online retail for 6 years, for items of the same value, size and weight.

I'm planning on not picking up the parcel and have it sent back to the company.
Did anybody ever try that?