My boyfriend doesn’t like having sex with me. Any advice?

My boyfriend (M19) and I (F19) have been together for a 10 months but we’ve only been having sex with condoms for a few months now since I'm not on any birth control. I really love our intimate time together and I thought he did too, but he recently told me that he actually hates wearing condoms, which makes him kinda dislike doing "the deed". I know this is a typical guy thing but it really sucks knowing that he doesn't enjoy our time together as much as l do. I'm trying to get on birth control now to please him but it really messes up my body. He says getting head has a lot more feeling to it (and it's more enjoyable) but we don't ever do it cause it takes too much time for both of us to finish. We both live at his parents house so we have to be quick when his parents aren't home. I can't help but feel like I'm not performing well enough in the bedroom for him even though I know he's blaming the condoms.

Any advice?

Edit: To those of you saying to just dump him, I will absolutely not be doing that. My father passed away 6 months ago from a disease he’s been fighting for a long time and my boyfriend has been with me through it all. He’s not going anywhere lol

Many of you have said that this is a communication issue and I’d have to agree. I’m glad he shared how he really feels, but at the same time he also hurt my feelings. One of the best solutions I got is to try other condoms (the most popular recommendation being Skyns) or for me to try non hormonal birth control.

Again, thank you guys for sharing your thoughts and opinions. This is a difficult situation so your advice has really helped me a lot. I’m still responding to comments throughout the day so please be patient with me