AITAH if i divorce him for this reason?

My husband,24m and i,25f have been together for 5 years and we have kids and married. He told me the other day that hes glad he met me but im not the girl he wanted because im mexican and he dont like mexicans but here we are smh, and he wanted to be with a black girl. I have no problem with black people, i have to say because its not about that, its the fact im not the woman he wants and im so hurt and i dont even think i love him anymore, i rather him be happy with who he wants to be happy because we have problems in iur relationship so i think its better i call it quits. I dont know. AITAH? **Update: we talked and I overreacted and we are fine, he apologized about it because of how i felt because he said it was justifiable to be upset so yeah.